美国高效能孩子的七个习惯树

　　

　　

　　I balance courage for getting what I wantwith consideration for what others want. I make deposits in others' Emotional Bank Accounts. When conflicts arise, I look for third alternatives.

　　我勇于争取自己想要的，但是我同时也会考虑别人的需求。我在别人的情感银行帐号里放下我的存款。有矛盾的时候，我寻求能平衡彼此需求的解决方案。

　　

　　

　　I listen to other people's ideas andfeelings. I try to see things from their viewpoints. I listen to others withoutinterrupting. I am confident in voicing my ideas. I look people in the eyeswhen talking.

　　我仔细聆听别人的主意和情感。我努力从他人角度去理解问题。听别人说话的时候我不插嘴、不打扰。我很有信心说出我自己的主意。别人说话的时候，我直视他的眼睛。

　　

　　

　　I value other people's strengths and learnfrom them. I get along well with others, even people who are different than me. I work well in groups. I seek out other people's ideas to solve problemsbecause I know that by teaming with others we can make better solutions thananyone of us can alone. I am humble.

　　我珍重别人的优点，向他们学习。我和大家很好相处，即使他们和我很不一样。我能有效地进行团队合?，因为我知道合作比单打独斗能带来更好的解决方案。我保持谦虚的精神。

　　

　　

　　I take care of my body eating right, exercising and getting sleep. I spend time with family and friends. I learn inlots of ways and lots of places, not just at school. I find meaningful ways tohelp others.

　　我主意饮食、锻炼和睡眠。我花时间和家人、朋友在一起。我在各种地方都能以各种方式学到很多东西-学习的地方可不止于学校。我用有意义的方式去帮助别人。